Folks ask us ALL THE TIME about specific flower meanings. I have always had some standard answers, mostly based on hearsay, but recently I came across Victoria's Dictionary of Flowers... and it is an awesome resource!! http://www.scribd.com/doc/53971049/Victoria-s-Flower-Dictionary
It provides us with awesome tidbits like gladiolus mean "You pierce my heart" and yellow roses stand for "infidelity"... There are some positive meanings in there too but I loved those two in particular.
The Society of American Florists is also a great resource for flower meanings.
Alstroemeria | aspiring |
Amaryllis | dramatic |
Anemone | fragile |
Apple Blossom | promis |
Aster | contentment |
Azalea | abundance |
Baby's Breath | festivity |
Bachelor Button | anticipation |
Begonia | deep thoughts |
Black-Eyed Susan | encouragement |
Camellia | graciousness |
Carnation | |
pink | gratitude |
red | flashy |
striped | refusal |
white | remembrance |
yellow | cheerful |
Chrysanthemum | |
bronze | excitement |
white | truth |
red | sharing |
yellow | secret admirer |
Cosmos | peaceful |
Crocus | foresight |
Daffodil | chivalry |
Delphinium | boldness |
Daisy | innocence |
Freesia | spirited |
Forget-Me-Not | remember me forever |
Gardenia | joy |
Geranium | comfort |
Ginger | proud |
Gladiolus | strength of character |
Heather | solitude |
Hibiscus | delicate beauty |
Holly | domestic happiness |
Hyacinth | sincerity |
Hydrangea | perseverance |
Iris | inspiration |
Ivy | fidelity |
Jasmine | grace and elegance |
Larkspur | beautiful spirit |
Lavender | distrust |
Lilac | first love |
Lily | |
Calla | regal |
Casablanca | celebration |
Day | enthusiasm |
Stargazer | ambition |
Lisianthus | calming |
Magnolia | dignity |
Marigold | desire for riches |
Nasturtium | patriotism |
Orange Blossom | fertility |
Orchid | delicate beauty |
Pansy | loving thoughts |
Passion flower | passion |
Peony | healing |
Poppy | consolation |
Queen Anne's Lace | delicate femininity |
Ranunculus | radiant |
Rhododendron | beware |
Rose | |
pink | friendship |
red | passionate love |
red & white | unity |
white | purity |
yellow | zealous |
Snapdragon | presumptuous |
Star of Bethlehem | hope |
Stephanotis | good luck |
Statice | success |
Sunflower | adoration |
Sweetpea | shyness |
Tuberose | pleasure |
Tulip | |
pink | caring |
purple | royalty |
red | declaration of love |
white | forgiveness |
yellow | hopelessly in love |
Violet | faithfulness |
Wisteria | steadfast |
Yarrow | good health |
Zinnia | thoughts of friends |
I have decided that if I had my wedding to do over again (which hopefully I won't!) that I would want to choose flowers for my bouquet that conveyed a special meaning. I went back to my own bridal bouquet recipe and here is what I came up with (using victoria's flower dictionary):
White roses- A heart unacquainted with love... hmmm?
Craspedia- Edgy OR Good Health... lets go with good health on this one
Dusty Miller- Delicate, Happy ... better...
Stock- You will always be beautiful to me... perfect!